Old family stories are important to kids’ well being, especially in challenging economic times
I came across a good article and post in the Wall Street Journal regarding the general growing interest in family storytelling and the importance it plays in the mental health and well-being of children in a family.
The author says:
As parents cut budgets, many are finding family stories have surprising power to help children through hard times. Storytelling experts say the phenomenon reflects a growing national interest in telling tales, evidenced by a rise in storytelling events and festivals. New research bears out the value of family stories, linking teens’ knowledge of them to better behavior and mental health.
An Emory University study of 65 families with children ages 14 to 16 found kids’ ability to retell parents’ stories was linked to a lower rate of depression and anxiety and less acting-out of frustration or anger, says Robyn Fivush, a psychology professor. Knowing family stories “helps children put their own experience in perspective,” Dr. Fivush says.
Stories resonate with kids, and they definitely remember them. About four months ago, my mom told my six-year old daughter a story from 30+ years ago about the time we got our dog Pepper, and how Pepper first showed up on our doorstep during a cold and snowy winter night. We don’t know how Pepper got there. (My daughter has been wanting a dog for the past 3 years, with no success). Last week, during one of our many recent cold nights, my daughter said, “Maybe a dog like Pepper will show up for us tonight.” This was the first time in since my mom told her that story that she mentioned it, so clearly it made an impression on her and something triggered the memory.
During these tough economic times, it is especially important to focus on what’s really important – family members and close relationships. Be sure to record and tell (and re-tell) the stories that keep the family memories alive, so that the younger generations can learn from them and future generations will carry them on.
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